Well, because there is often something missing in their relationship. Many want more diversity, want to try different sexual practices, different styles and want to become better lovers through variation and experiences.
Often it’s the weak polarity, the lack of desire and attraction towards their partner, whom they know from inside out and they start to feel a little bored because they got nothing to share anymore.
Rules give us a certain framework on which we can rely on.
Especially when it comes to delicate topics, which might trigger negative emotions, like for example sleepovers.
Whenever an emotion gets triggered we can use rules in order to milden pitfall and enjoy the positive side.
Also a strong trust and transparency between the couple in an open relationship is necessary in order to keep the harmony and peace.Believing in abundance can bring us over possessiveness.It’s actually quite a spiritual path if you look closer.The fire or the spark which was in the beginning very strong is lacking its potential and that’s why they developed the desire for something/someone else.To open up and challenge the relationship a little bit, can re-inspire this spark and bring up a great attraction to one another.